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I'm 49 and from Derby, Derbyshire, Midlands (UK)
I'm looking for a man
I'm interested in: Romance or Long Term Relationship
[Last logged on : this week]
Seeking a mindful mind and heart
Ello ello! I'm looking for a mindful mind and heart. My 'Om' describes a gentle, calm, empathic, curious, thoughtful and kind me. All sounds a bit zen doesnt it? BUT wait... ive got a 'bunny' side too which loves to be bounce, have fun and loves a good laugh. I can be sharp and witty (the healthy sort mind you!) and I don't do well with sarcasm, control or shouting in any form which I see and feel quickly and move away from. Looking for someone who wants to share, compromise and communicate in a growing relationship. Im romantic as I like a man who knows how to treat me like the lady that I know I am. Now for the serious bits: Im hoping for one whose life experience has given him a depth within that he views as having shaped him for the better - a visible resilience and authenticity. Someone who feels he has found comfort in his skin and is able to share his challenges and importantly the vulnerabilities - that he is able and willing to help me see them when they arise so I can learn how to best accommodate them and share mine too. Someone who knows and enjoys the pleasure of giving and also receiving however small it may be. He's mindful and knows the importance of quiet contemplation for his emotional wellbeing. Dont get me wrong, he can move swiftly (as can I ) when needed, but he knows how to slow things down and to be in the 'moment' to know what he is feeling and to share this carefully with me. Im tactile and affectionate, if I like you and feel accepted and so seek the same. At heart, Im a nurturing soul with a healthy dose of sexiness and intellect mixed in. Im thrifty but not cheap ;0) quirky stylish as I love putting myself together in pre-loved, pretty elegant things. I love all things garden green too! I'm hoping to meet someone whose appearance and deportment is pleasing to my mind as well as the eye (even if in a T shirt and jeans but with a warm smile!) and I his. So all in all.... an Interesting mix........... do say hello if something attracts. 😊
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Basic Info
Marital Status Single
Has Children No
Would like children? Yes
Hair Color Black
Height 5' 7'' (1.7m)
Religion Buddhist
Smokes No
Dietary Preferences Keeping it Healthy
Star Sign Scorpio
Orientation Straight
Heritage Black/African/Caribbean/Black British
Education Masters
Eye Colour Brown
Body Type Average
Politics Centre
Drinks Social drinker
Like Animals Animal Lover
Mental health research
Has been in the main mental health - Clinical psychology.....
Brown is beautiful
Am not too keen on organised religion, but am respectful of those who find it works for them. Rather, I aim to cultivate a aura of spirituality and personal freedom through mindful calm.
Live and let live.
pretty brown
Languages Spoken:
A little french that all...... Id be open to acquiring another language though......
Musical Instruments played:
Am learning the flute.... and I am loving it!
Music Enjoyed:
Classical, Jazz, Opera, Reggae, World Music anything that 'moves and grooves' me
Sports and exercise:
Badminton, Swimming, Yoga
Interests and activities:
Im quite musical so anything that allows me to express myself creatively - dancing eg salsa is good. Planting in the garden, being quiet, reading, searching charity shops and designer ones too! ps. i love 'good' food.
Animals and Pets:
I'd love a dog, because I keep going up to people who have them ;0). Though, I realise that a bird might work better for me. So if you have a doggie...
Newspapers and magazines:
Guardian most times. The Week as I dont watch TV much.
Anything by Allan Bennett
Favourite Films:
My favourite film is : The Untouchables with Omar Sy and Francois Cluzet.
Enjoyable evening out:
Art Gallery, Cinema, Restaurant, Theatre
Favourite Dishes:
Yorkshire FISH and CHIPS!!! Lasagne, Smoked Salmon and pan fried sea-bass!
Ideal Holiday:
Safari in Africa, Scuba diving in Thailand
In another life:
a golden eagle, a dancer
Affectionate, Adventurous, Ambitious, Caring, Cautious, Confident, Courageous, Considerate, Creative, Friendly, Intellectual, Loving, Reliable, Romantic, Sensitive, Sensual, Stylish, Thoughtful, Tolerant
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