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Internet dating for thinking people
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Why we are very different to other sites
Our profiles offer much greater depth & breadth than any of the competition.

Our unique compatibility questionnaire has over 100 provoking & revealing questions which give fascinating insights into attitudes & lifestyle. We can even rate which type of humour appeals to you!

Our biggest source of referral is from our own members - which speaks for itself.

We have a genuinely FREE membership option.
Marriages are Made in Bond Street

A really interesting blog post from Loveandfriends owner Mary Balfour over on her Drawing Down the Moon Blog.

I recently had the great pleasure of lunching with Penrose Halson, the author of this just-published and fascinating book. I've known Penrose for many years as a colleague in the matchmaking world. That's the two of us in the photo above, and Penrose is s...

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"The loveliest man in all creation"
"Through L & F I've met [honestly - I'm notorious for being dead critical, so it must be true] and so I'm delighted to terminate my membership.

I wish luck to all my Internet men, and I recommend the site to all my single friends who are seeking a partner. Many, Many thanks!!!"
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We are a member of the Online Dating Association (ODA) which was set up to ensure high standards of behaviour by dating service providers serving the UK. The ODA Code of Practice is binding on members of the Association.

As an ODA Member we are required to have appropriate and effective arrangements in place for dealing with complaints and enquiries.

The ODA provides general information on common enquiries users have about dating services but will not deal directly with individual complaints which are properly the responsibility of member companies. The ODA monitors enquiry and complaint levels and the issues complained about. It can intervene if it sees worrying trends or serious matters of concern.

Further information about ODA can be found here.  A link to our customer service arrangements is provided here